Submission: Power, Control, and Trust
Very often the things we want are not always things that are the best for us and are usually self-indulgent wishes that change as fast as the top ten hits on VH1. They are the fundamentals we require to remain mentally and physically healthy and allow us to grow spiritually and emotionally. I may really want a hot fudge sundae but survive quite well without it. But, I cannot thrive without my basic needs being met. Each person is unique and comes with their own special requirements.
Without a doubt, this is one area that requires communication skills and time before either party can confidently determine what they want or need from the other. Please click here if you wish to leave a comment. The link will take you to this same post on my new blog, as this one is being phased out. It is my hope that people who need the information on this blog will indeed find their ways here. This is great! I have been really struggling with my list.
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Thinking about what I need is not my strong point. RSS - Posts. RSS - Comments.
Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. Sign me up! Here are a few…. While it tends to be said by submissives most often, Doms can and should! Again, this is an either side of the slash thing. Maybe you have a high protocol power exchange that consists primarily of orders.
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- 5 Things You Should Always Say or Hear in a D/s Relationship.
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Of course, submissives say it a lot. Obviously, this is something a Dom or top will say to a submissive or bottom.
5 Things You Should Always Say or Hear in Your D/s Relationship
If your sub pleases you , tell them. He decides. From a Dominant perspective, this tends to be about consent. Fuck that. Asking means you care about what your submissive thinks, feels, and wants.
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Sure, in a kinky scene, commands may fly, but asking shows you understand consent. So, of course, as with all things, the exact wording you use might be different. Are there other things that you think should always be said in any relationship? Share with us in the comments or on Twitter! Your email address will not be published. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Notify me of new posts by email.
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